Frequently Asked Questions
Q. Are you really just interested in spanking me?
A. Yes. This is a discrete interest and the complete experience -- physical, verbal, and emotional -- is what I find attractive. For a compelling description of why some of us are interested in consensual adult spanking as a standalone activity, you can find an incredibly illuminating video from Jillian Keenan here. Most importantly, I believe firmly in consent as a first principle.
Q. Can I be spanked for real-life misbehavior that I'm looking to change? A. Yes. I've met many women who are looking to improve certain personal habits like over-spending, procrastination, or performance at work or in higher education, among many other reasons. The key caveat is that disciplinary spanking needs to be based on goals and rules we agree to collaboratively, not my unilateral imposition of dictates.
Q. That's not for me. Can I be spanked for other reasons, or no reason at all?
A. Yes! My interest is versatile and includes light-hearted "funishments" (spankings for contrived, fake misbehavior like sticking your tongue out), certain types of roleplay, and fun, stress-relief spankings "just because."
Q. What are you going to spank me with once I'm over the knee?
A. One of my favorite implements is my hand -- it's hard to beat the personal touch (and I've heard it's quite stingy!). Other favorites include wooden spoons, hairbrushes, and some leather items, but all of those would be based on your comfort level.
Q. What's a typical spanking like?A. Generally I'd have you stand directly in front of me and we'd discuss why you're about to be spanked. Then we'd start with my hand against the seat of your jeans or dress, eventually progressing to a bare-bottom spanking that takes you up to but not over your limit. As this is all based on consent, any aspect of this can be altered according to your limits and preferences.
Q. Whaf if it's too much or I don't like it?A. I use the typical "stoplight" safeword system, meaning you can tell me "yellow" to slow down and "red" to stop immediately.
Q. What happens afterward?A. The type of aftercare you receive is entirely up to you. Some of my favorites include giving her backrubs and rubbing soothing lotion on her bottom.
Q. Is this a service that you charge for?A. Of course not. This is rewarding and fun for both of us.
Q. How old are you, and where in the area are you?A. I'm 41 years old, right outside of DC (on the Metro).
